Monthly Archives: June 2014

Passive aggressive is aggressive

The comments left on this article about passive aggressive people were perhaps more interesting to me than the article. You can read it here: I think it’s been so many years that I have gallows humor about this at times.  … Continue reading

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A hawk killed our cat

I thought I better just stick the worst of it in the topic heading, so anyone has fair warning.  On Tuesday night, both Tiger and Princess came in for the evening sardines and kibble.  They looked great, purring and munching, … Continue reading

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I get cold

Not long ago, my husband said he thought we should take the top lightweight blanket off our bed, and that we didn’t need it.  I told him that I get cold, and that I still need it to please stay … Continue reading

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What happens when I ask him for something

Here I go again.  Use me as the role model to avoid.  What Happens When You Marry a Passive Aggressive Man 101 I do know that asking is fraught with risk and a high probability of being sabotaged in whatever … Continue reading

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What holds me to him

What holds me to him?  I can think of so many answers to this question.  The fact that I actually married him, said vows, and never wanted to divorce.  This was because I’d been raised to fear the devastation of … Continue reading

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I can’t make you love me

This song says it all. Turn down the lights, turn down the bed Turn down these voices inside my head Lay down with me, tell me no lies Just hold me close, don’t patronize – don’t patronize me Cause I … Continue reading

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Withholding sex as punishment

There’s been some infamously fascinating conversation about sex and the passive aggressive man in the comments on this post. I don’t want to give the impression that we never have sex, or that we’ve never had great sex.  Like everything … Continue reading

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