Tag Archives: accusations

Wordless but clear communications

It’s so strange how a passive aggressive man doesn’t need to say the actual words, but can clearly convey that you’ve offended, displeased, missed the mark, done something wrong, not done enough etc., and yet utterly deny that he feels … Continue reading

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I remember as a newlywed that we had a clock that used to flip over numbers as the minutes went by.  I laid awake so many nights watching those numbers flip, full of tears, anger, confusion, and pain. Last night … Continue reading

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Gardening the sequel and cosmos

This year, I started more cosmos from seed, but no lavender.  I didn’t have the heart to try both again.  He gave me such a hard time about the tomatoes, that I bought three from the nursery, and didn’t start … Continue reading

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